Here is a liberating thought I come back to a lot. I don’t know your life, we’re all messy strangers, and you are your own best guide. I guess those are all three seperate thoughts but feel very wrapped up in each other. They feel extremely important to me to uncenter myself from whatever spiral I may catch myself in. Other peoples reactions to me is just simply not my business (I wrote about this the other day, clearly its on my mind). Knowing we’re all messy strangers is a valuable part of this equation. It’s so insane to me that we all get up and go to the grocery store like we’re all not deeply traumatized people. The brilliance of being able to go on each day is so beautiful.
Resiliency is getting a bad rap at the moment and I while I am not here to tell you your business, I also see people with the privilege of getting to sit out denounce their ability to “stay resilient”.
Because despite having a whole bunch of evidence for the contrary so many of us show up anyway. I marvel at the homophobic drops I was fed by the world and still I decide to come out. The weight of the love we did and din’t get and still have the bravery to call a friend and ask how they are. So many of us say no and still show up as the whole self we were whipsered to never become. If that isn’t resiliency I don’t know what is. And if thats triggering you, then my friend I think you may just be resilient 🪄.
But I don’t know your life. I am not in the business of telling you WHAT TO DO.
I don’t know your life.
You are your own best guide.
I’m here to be a mirror. I’m here to cheerlead. I’m here to maybe point of the evidence of the contrary. I’m here to run the experiments along side you and find the direction you want to go in. Share what I have collected for the day and sort through our finding together. I’m here to celebrate the magic, bravery and knowledge you already have. And if you’ll let me say it, the resiliency 😉.
got a pair of jeans that fit my butt and my life is forever changed. Thank you Sequel jeans (not spon I just believe in the power of good pants!)
COACHING BOOKS! Spirit knocked and I answered, somatic coaching books are staying sliding scale till the end of August. the TLDR of my current “coaching package” can be found below. Lets journey together 🌊
I’m on tiktok now and I dont hate it and having a lot of fun?
Gifting this book Conflict is not Abuse to everyone
I’m on a mission to be more vegan (read a book, changed my brain 😳) but I am excited to make this this weekend 🍇
It’s so not too late to join us (in fact we’ve had a handful of people sign up since our first live call!) In The Roots Messy DIY Summer Sprint 🪄🌳 is here for you MAKE THE DANG THING* this summer, ready to answer the call?
big love + many blessing for uncentering our beautiful selves
xx
Phoebe 💖